The topic of having a second baby is always as debatable as having a baby at all.
Ever since I remember, I wanted to have 2 children but it’s not easy to convince your partner who feels just the opposite.
When our first one was about to be 3, I shared the idea of having a second baby to the mix, with my husband.
As expected, he clearly said NO.
But I did not settle there but tried different ways to convince him. How? Don’t ask me. Wink Wink 😉
But yes, Why I convinced him?
You see, convincing is important because it’s not a one man’s game.
My reasons for having a second baby
Kid will get his Companion
Though I always get involved in his play be it blocks or pretend-fighting or messy play. But I observed that he has more fun when someone of his age come to play with him.
This is why I believe he will be happy to have another Kid around.
I will get some Free time
Moreover, while the two will get the company of each other, I will get some free time.
And I can concentrate on other areas- Home Cooked Food, Self-growth, and Self-Care.
I love to imagine my two Kids laughing together over a common joke. Giggles are something each one of us wants to fill our Homes with.
More time as a couple
Parents need their alone time too with Kids not around.
Our Kid doesn’t let us (as a couple) talk. He wants our undivided attention at all the times.
We hardly get any time alone. With the second one around him, they will entertain each other and we will get some quality time together.
Also, read– Husband’s letter to her Wife as a Mother.
To see him loving selflessly
Just like Parents love their child selflessly, Siblings too develop this kind of love towards each other.
I would love to see him protecting, caring and loving for his younger sibling.
To help him learn to share
My Kiddo is not good at sharing things for long. When he feels like his territory is getting occupied, he orders the other Kid to go Home.
But with his own sibling, he gets to understand that it doesn’t work this way and he needs to learn to share the things.
Moreover, I do not need to go out in search of his playmate.
Also Read- How to tackle Rude Toddler behavior
At the time of my first-born, everything was new and I was just a trainee. 🙂
Delivery, How to feed him, How much sleep he needs, Why he is crying and so much more I learned with him.
All the practice and learning I went through with my son made me more confident and now I can call myself “Experienced” Mom.
Now I know- What works and what not.
If you ask me, I always felt happy having a Sibling. It’s a wonderful feeling when you have someone around you 24*7 to share your secrets and your problems; most-important your partner-in-crime.
Besides fighting with each other, we also fought for each other. We stood by each other. We lent a helping hand. We wiped tears.
I am so excited to have another tiny human to take care of, to make our Family complete.
Saying that It’s always about your own choice and priorities and yes, this does not make you selfish!
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