“Peace of mind comes from not wanting to change others.”
From last 2 days, I am using Eye signs more than words, Hmmm.. rather than a sentence and a Grin rather than Nag.
It was more peaceful than ever. A rhythm was not broken.
I stopped noticing the things which disturbs my peace of mind. I spoke to myself and told “I cannot make everything perfect. I cannot change everyone than myself.”
And why I wanna change something or someone- How does it affect me or Does it?
I am learning to accept the person as it is rather than changing them (of course for their good but in the effort to change them , I will not allow my peace of mind to muddle up ). I started shielding myself so that acts of loved ones could not hurt me; at-least not that deep.
One thing I do not like about myself and wants to change-
Sometimes I speak what I do not intend to. These words haunt me.
It were these hurt-words which echoed back and resonated in my mind till it suffocates. I am trying not to let the unfavorable moments overpower me and spill out the negativism.
I knew it was hurting me, it made me ill, it filled the heart with twinges leaving no space to bloom but how much I tried to bring the change, it did not budge. I failed infinitely but this time, its different. I could sense the change resting in my heart, SLOWLY.
Nothing can bring this down
No expectation can hurt me
No word can minimize this zeal
Hoping to unburden my mind and heart and feel lighter than ever.
Wish me Luck and do share your tips to keep negativity at bay.
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